It sounds to me you are very sensitive, perhaps even oversensitive. I suggest you write down what burdens you and lock yourself out from as much news as possible.
If it comes to surgeries even baby's in the womb undergo them and if a child or person is not strong enough no doctor advise this. You could focus on positive things instead of seeing doomsday everywhere.

How you feel and what happens has nothing to do with Allah.

I hope the baby can be helped and so will you
Blessed be.

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