SEC13 Wk2 “life partners and their qualities”
Hello beautiful and handsome men in this amazing community steem for ladies. Accept special greetings from my mother-land country Cameroon. Once more welcome to my own blog today, as I participate with my entry in this weeks2 season13 engagement challenge in this prestigious community. Here as the topics goes”Life partners and their qualities”.
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It’s always the dream of everyone as a grown up man or woman. To fufilled his or her dream by ending up with a partner that purchased the qualities they desires.Eventhough no human being is perfect, they most be some flaws which is part of someone character.Love indeed it’s a very beautiful thing to find a loving and caring partner.We should always bare in mind that we need to accept some flaws , learn to forgive, accept your mistakes when wrong, always make communication to flow as partners etc.My discussions below will be focused on the guidelines questions given.
There is no perfect marriage, there are days that you will have differences with your partner and that does not means you should forget about his or her good role he has played in your life.
My husband is very loving and caring person .I most he purchased most equalities of a partner that I wished to have and God gave me him.He has a good qualities that captured me.He is loving ,caring, hardworking, patient in life, not jealous, always contented and focused.
Not withstanding, I earlier said there is no human being without a flaw.My husband bad character I consider to be bad to me is that he so addicted to his work.I have not said someone should not be focused at his or her jobsite but I I always see that my husband exaggerates alots. He is that type of person that people can abandon work load as team and he does it alone without no problem.
Also, during working days in the week even after work in the house .You still see him spending much time focused doing work.I can say he only has free time to sit and discuss with people properly but on sundays .Even some the sundays he still very committed to his work. I have tried talk about it to him to always have enough rest after work but if seems is something he loves doing it and I just need to accept. Even though, am happy his hard works.
I really I don’t have don’t see my husband having some type of behavior that I can really change .My husband is that type of person he is not lazy .He love washing he dresses and keeping his shoes and properties himself.He that type of person that does not love someone in me washing his clothes ,shoes etc .Except when he busy, for this he is a supportive husband that will always asist at any time.
The only thing I will change from him is his addiction toward his jobsite.He over works than required, for this reason team mate. Turn to abandon work load on him because they know he will do it without no problem.It’s good to be hardworking but don’t over work yourself because in the long run it will have effect on him.Therefore I think work should be done by him according and he should always have enough rest.
My husband is a very caring and loving man and above all very Harding and patient in life.He is someone that already lost hope in life but believes he will still made it life and it happening.
I said my husband is patient and hardworking of course that why my love for him is unmeasurable.Me I hate lazy people beside who only cry beg and don’t work hard to bounce back in life .I remember when my husband got scholarship to travelled abroad and study .His last year of defending his masters thesis he fell seriously sick and had to travelled back to our country for proper medication.
My husband came back spend six months in the hospital and he was treated from tuberculosis. This is where life become more tuff because his dream became shattered and he turn back to zero. They was no way he go back and complete his masters studies because the school started complicating things. Later, he enrolled in humanitarian work, salary was not even encouraging at times he will be paid.
At times I will ask him to terminate Job but he will say no.He knows one day he will work with a good organization of his dream.
Guest what despite’s every he was still very committed and hardworking .As months passes by he got a new contract with a different organization, the salary was well encouraging and the package was huge.After a year he step up and got a new job with another organization. Presently working there the paid package is very good including mention allowances and other benefits he still work with others as consultants and they pay him well. Even me am always surprised because I couldn’t expect my husband can end such a salary in this our country.
I must say my husband is living the best life he worked for .He no longer lack’s because of his hardwork and patient.Am seeing more still coming. Above all from what I have explained my husband has proven to be patient and working.
Lastly my husband is a very caring and loving person to his family .Most especially to our children my love keep on increasing for him every day . He has proven to me he is a responsible that knows his rule as the father of the house without me reminding him.My worries are his, my kids not lack because he make sure he provided necessary thing for our kids without me asking.
To conclude, Marriage is a school that learning never ends. We should know we are not perfect but we strive hard to be perfect. Above all communication, forgiveness, patience, admitting your wrongdoing, hardwork, determined, not jealous, love etc. Above all is what maintain a good relationship with a partner.
I would love to invites @josepha @anroja @fi25 @goodybest and @crismenia to participate in this amazing contest .



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It is good that your partner posseses all the good qualities you needed in a partner. Caring and hardworking are good qualities. Being focused on his work is as a result of being hardworking and I don't see it has a worst quality anyways but since you will like it adjusted, talking it over with him will help. You are lucky to have as a life partner, someone who will always put food on the table for you. Keep cherishing him. Success
Thanks for the review @ngoenyi
Hola!
Que bueno que tengas a tu lado a un esposo tan amable, cariñoso y buen padre, espero que duren mucho tiempo juntos y puedan compartir día a día hermosos momentos. Exitos en el concurso.
Thanks for seeing my post worth reading and interesting friend
Hola amiga wirngo
Bueno los hombres nos caracterizamos por dedicarnos mucho al trabajo pero la razón es lo que mencionas mas abajo amiga, que no les falta nada gracias al arduo trabajo de tu esposo, felicitaciones por conseguir un buen esposo que si lee esta publicación estará muy contento de todo el cariño y respeto que le tienes.
No hay matrimonio perfecto es verdad pero con paciencia y amor todo se puede solucionar, les deseo un feliz matrimonio de muchos años mas.
Saludos
You are right no one is perfect in a relationship what matters is accept and tolerate, communicate, forgive etc in other to build a strong relationship
I agree with you that in a relationship there must be mutual forgiveness and communication. That's so great, I hope your relationship with your partner will always be happy
Thank you , dear , It’s wish of everyone to live in a good relationship
You husband is really loving. From all you explained, he must have stolen your heart with his kindness and caring personality.
Love is a beautiful thing and marriage completes it. Your husband is very ambitious that's why he always have workload to attend. And you have proven yourself worthy and loving by standing with him through thick and thin.
Good luck!
Greetings friend,
First I would say congratulations on your getting the ideal partner of your dream as it gets to encourage the single souls like us. I felt so proud reading through your publication wishing it was for me. 🥰😍
My biggest take is that there is no perfect partner as that only lives in fairytales and fantasies, but it's good to stay committed and make it work out. I wish you a happy marriage for many more years, lifetime is the goal.
Thank you friend for taking your time to read through my post am grateful