#humanbehaviorUnmoderated tagAll postsExplore CommunitiesTrending CommunitiesSteemitCryptoAcademyNewcomers' Communityআমার বাংলা ব্লগSteem AllianceSteem POD TeamKorea • 한국 • KR • KOSTEEM CN/中文Beauty of CreativityTron Fan ClubComunidad LatinaAVLE 일상Steem For Lifestyle#humanbehaviorTrendingHotNewPayoutsMutedroomwithnoclock (25)in #philosophy • 26 days agoWaving — the strange discipline of knowing when to stop performing goodbyeWhen the Hand Comes Down I've watched this happen on enough platforms to know it isn't really about the goodbye.…cathywu (41)in #psychology • last month5 Weird Signs Someone Doesn't Really Like You5 Weird Signs Someone Doesn't Really Like You Have you ever had a conversation with someone and walked away…cuterosheed23 (35)in #psychology • last monthWhy Your Brain Makes You Procrastinate Even When You Know What To DoWhy Your Brain Makes You Procrastinate Even When You Know What To Do Have you ever had an important task in front of…cathywu (41)in #psychology • last monthHuman Nature, Psychology, and Relationships: The Things We Learn Too LateThere are some lessons about people that we usually learn only after getting hurt. We learn that being kind doesn't…cathywu (41)in #psychology • 2 months agoThe Moment I Stopped Expecting People to Be PerfectThe Moment I Stopped Expecting People to Be Perfect I used to think one of the most important rules in relationships…cathywu (41)in #psychology • 2 months ago停止内耗的最高智慧：接受人性复杂，然后建立自己的边界（下）——温柔的人，也必须拥有锋芒（从这里开始接续） 很多人痛苦，是因为他们太害怕冲突。 别人第一次越界。 他们忍。 别人第一次占便宜。 他们算了。 别人第一次伤害。 他们告诉自己： “可能他不是故意的。” “再给他一次机会。”…cathywu (41)in #humanbehavior • 2 months ago关系最大的真相：不要拿利益去考验人性（中）——很多友情和亲情，都输在利益冲突的一刻（从这里开始接续） 当你真正理解人性以后，你会发现： 很多关系看起来坚固，并不是因为感情有多深。 而是因为暂时没有利益冲突。 朋友之间为什么可以多年和睦？ 因为大家没有争夺同一个东西。…cathywu (41)in #psychology • 2 months ago内耗的本质：你一直在用文明的逻辑，解读动物的行为（上）——看懂人性底层代码，你才能停止痛苦我见过太多人，因为不懂人性，最后伤害了自己。 他们善良、真诚、愿意付出，把别人想得太好，把关系看得太重。 他们相信： “只要我真心对别人，别人一定会真心对我。” “只要我足够善良，就不会被伤害。”…
